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Single, gay, 42, hate apps. Help!

The Ask Alexander columnist gives advice for escaping the digital cruising swamp.

Who gets to tell the story of Félix González-Torres?

An exhibition at the Smithsonian’s National Portrait Gallery has sparked criticism of queer and AIDS erasure — as well as debate over the intentions of the late artist, Félix González-Torres.

Advice: Is my partner really enjoying fisting?

The Ask Alexander columnist gives advice for gauging a sexual partner's pleasure.

The Sniffies app: An expert review, plus tips for cruising

With a new app, the platform Sniffies wants to bring queer cruising back offline. Here’s a primer.

Does the leather community have a Nazi problem?

A recent controversy at the Tom of Finland Foundation has sparked debate about the line between fetish and fascism.

What is chemsex? Here's what you need to know

Everything you need to know about "party and play" culture.

'AI? Bye!' Why I'm quitting Grindr for good

Back on the dating market, the Last Call columnist finds a few reasons to unplug from technology.

The jockstrap's 150th birthday is a gay milestone—here's why

The underwear is still going strong in large part due to its embrace by the queer community.

In defense of gay monogamy

In a time when polyamory is trending, Out's Last Call columnist asked gay couples about the virtues of exclusive pairings.

Mama, kudos: A thank-you to Q & 'Drag Race's HIV advocates

RuPaul's Drag Race contestants have been moving the culture and public education on HIV forward since the show's inception, praises Out columnist Alexander Cheves.

Gay gym culture has a deadly downside

Amplified by social media, body dysmorphia and other mental health issues are taking a toll on queer men.

How to fight LGBTQ+ book bans

History warns of censorship’s consequences. Here’s how to fight it.

How to Fight an Anti-LGBTQ+ SCOTUS? In a Nasty Pig Jockstrap

A Supreme Court decision allowing LGBTQ+ discrimination in business drives home the importance of a Nasty Pig jockstrap — and supporting queer-owned companies.

What Makes a Single Queer Man Desirable in 2023?

As Out brings back its list of Most Eligible Bachelors, Last Call columnist Alexander Cheves reflects on the meaning of eligibility.

Diplo Is the Unlikely Ambassador of a Sexually Fluid Future

Diplo is “not not gay.” So what does that mean for the state of LGBTQ+ labels?

Dying Gay Bars? There's a Sobering Upside

The sober-curious movement hurts gay bars, but it’s a lifeline for a community that has been disproportionately harmed by substances.

It's Time to Talk About Gay Steroid Use

Bros shone a light on men using testosterone injections to achieve a muscular physique. Columnist Alexander Cheves further explores its queer history and dangers.

13 New Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming

Bottoming is great, but there's A LOT that comes with it, writes Out's sex writer.

How To Be the Best Top You Can Be

Topping is an art form, and there's a lot that goes into it, explains advice columnist, author, and queer sex writer Alexander Cheves.

The Sex Party Checklist: A Guide to Helping Your Guests Come Together

Out's Alexander Cheves offers tips on how to make your next sex party a fun, unforgettable occasion.