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Not quite business casual: How to show up as your whole self in the workplace

Your Lovable Trans Auntie on surviving cubicles, colleagues, and casual transphobia, all while wearing stilettos high enough to survive and thrive above it.

When exes blossom in Spring—and how to nip them in the bud

As daffodils pop and DMs ping, Your Lovable Trans Auntie picks up the flirty, foolproof guide to spotting recycled romance—and pruning it before it overshadows your springtime bloom.

Am I feeling 'Younger,' or is it the joy of finally living my truest self?

I, too, know what it's like to rediscover the electric thrill of dates and desires I was never allowed to claim before.

Your Lovable Trans Auntie asks, "Where do we go from here?"

Trans Day of Visibility 2025 felt like a heartfelt wave of connection. But keeping the flow moving is equally essential for lasting change.

Ask Auntie: Disclosing your trans identity with confidence

Is disclosure a vital trans tool to spread one's wings, or can it feel like a fragile chrysalis?

Ask Auntie: To pass or not to pass? The trans tightrope we walk

Grab a martini, darling. Let’s talk about it.

Ask Auntie: Outing your MAGA trade–is it ever okay?

Is it ever okay to out them, or does that cross a boundary? Advice from your Lovable Trans Auntie.

Your Lovable Trans Auntie is here to explain it all

Each week, I'll answer reader questions and offer advice. Submit your questions to voices@equalpride.com.